I think there’s a good mix of single/attached people who read this, but this is geared mostly towards the single folks.
Do you like it? If so, why? If you do no like it, why?
I was having a chat with a friend of mine yesterday about the fact that she is miserable living hew new found single life at this martini bar in New Brunswick. Now, I can understand if you have been single for a good number of years and want to be in a relationship with someone. That’s completely understandable. Heck after a couple of years, I will most likely be looking to find someone to be in a relationship with. Though I hope the rates for those dating services like eharmony.com go down! 😉
However, this girl is at most one week into the single life and she’s already looking for a new man. Apparently, she’s just one of those types who always need to be with someone just for the sake of being with someone and it sucks to say this but I felt so sorry for her. She admitted she was jealous of me because I seemed to be embracing the single life much better than her and it’s true. I’m totally digging just being me and alone now, but, that’s because I’ve never really been “alone and me” for an insanely long time. I recognize the fact that for my own sanity I just need to be detached from an intimate relationship for a while. I still hang out with a close circle of friends and I enjoy meeting lots of new people, but that’s as far as I am taking it. Perhaps she just isn’t at that point of her life now where she has not realized the blissfulness of just being single?